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Posted: 05/22/2015 by Singlefied in DatingTags: ask miss singlefied, dating advice for guys, dating advice for men, dating advisor, dating coach yue xu, dating truths, female dating coach, getting the girl, getting your crush, how not to be single, how to date, how to get a girlfriend, how to get the girl, why am I single, why you're still single, youtube miss singlefied
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Hi Yue.
I just wanted to thank you for reiterating what I recently discovered about myself.
I’ve just finished watching this week’s episode of The Gadget Show here in the UK and after your wonderful performance, I was curious to find out more about your background. That brought me here, specifically to this video. I have to admit, my expectations were low on what advice you had to give, mainly because you’re not a man and know how we think, and partly because of the build up in the video seemed a bit promotional, but after listening to your first reason why I might still be single at 39, I was hooked until the end.
After struggling to progress through my 4th or 5th date with numerous ladies over the past 12 months or so, I now realise I’m just not ready and I think it’s because when it comes to being a boyfriend, I lack that confidence you mention. Day to day, I can communicate with anyone on any subject, with plenty of confidence, but you certainly helped highlight what’s happening when it comes to relationships. Obviously, I now have to figure out what’s happening, but I think being able to see this from the outside is a great place to start, especially after hearing it from you too.
Thanks again and I look forward to going through your other videos to see what else I can learn about myself.
All the best,
David.