Intimidating vs. Inspirational

Posted: 11/06/2010 by Singlefied in Dating
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This is what I often hear from you guys: “She’s too intimidating.”  What does that mean?!  Did you just grow a vagina?  By labeling someone as intimidating, you 1) admit your inferiority and 2) are protecting yourself from rejection.   I am a firm believer that nobody is intimidating once you see their intimidating qualities as inspirational challenges.  For example, Jim (one of my clients) was afraid to ask out his work crush Kerry because she has a very full social life.  Instead of seeing this girl as a social butterfly who is too busy for him, I told Jim that he should be inspired to match her social potency.  So, Jim started to initiate more social events with his friends and not only did he have a more packed calendar, he was also able to invite Kerry on some of these social outings.  They had a drunken one night stand and Jim overcame his intimidation of Kerry and moved on to a hotter chick.

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  1. Datingisms says:

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