Happy Monday! Fun Ice Breaker/ Panty Dropper

1) Think of your favorite color.  Describe it with three words. 2) Think of an animal.  Describe the animal using three words. 3) Think of your favorite body of water (natural or manmade).  Describe that using three words. 4) Imagine you’re in a room that is painted all white, with no doors or windows.  Describe [...]

The Dating Timeline (who you should be dating at your age)

I’ve spent years gathering the dating timeline of men and women, and this is a rough draft of what I’ve gathered.  For those of you who are graphically-challenged, this is how you read this chart: If you’re not married by [insert age rage], this is what you’re thinking [insert words below age range].  Then follow [...]

Inner vs. Outer Swagger

I’m doing my usual “research” at a bar and in walks a group of guys.  One of them is clearly the leader of the pack, confidently walks in first, first bumps the bartender, greets the room with a teethy smile, and leads his group to a table in the middle of the bar.  This guy [...]

HOW TO: Be a Male Gold Digger

In response to my post of How to Spot Gold Diggers, many of you wrote in and asked how you can become a gold digger.  If this is the career direction you’ve chosen to explore, who am I to stop you?  Here’s how: 1) Lower your standards.  A rich, hot girl will just attract richer [...]

Breaking the Ice: The Creeper Sweeper

Every time girls go out, it’s inevitable that we’re approached by a creeper.  Sucks for us but awesome for you!  Why?  Everything is relative, so if you immediately talk to a girl after she has been creeper attacked, by comparison, you’ll seem 10x more normal and desirable.  And if you’re the one to get rid [...]

Meet My Single Friends…Soon

There may be a new dating site coming to the US soon called, MySingleFriend.com, which allows users to pimp out their friends.  I actually had the same idea for a business with the same name (some of you received an email from me), but I should’ve figured that it already existed somewhere. The problem I [...]

HOW TO: Determine Who is in Your League

After posting about Mila Kunis and MacCaulay Culkin, many of you wrote in to ask how to determine if someone’s in your physical attractiveness league or not.  Although I think that’s bullshit and everyone knows (deep deep down inside), try this fun exercise anyway: 1) On a scale of 1-10 (1 being someone you wouldn’t [...]

The First 3 Dates

The first 3 dates are the most crucial in determining if you’re right for each other or not. FIRST DATE: The purpose is to get to know each other.  I don’t believe in elaborate dinners or outings for a first date.  Trying to impress someone so hard this early on creates the Reality TV Effect, [...]

SWOT Yourself

Dating is like selling yourself as a product and seeing who wants to buy.  But how can you really sell yourself if you don’t know your product?  Self-awareness and understanding is something lacking among many men, so this week, I challenge you to go back to Marketing 101 and get to know your product.  SWOT [...]

My Theory About L.O.V.E.

It’s my big 3-0 today.  How’s that for some self-promotion?  This birthday feels a little different than the rest.  For one, I’ve come to really appreciate the people in my life: friends who’ve come through for me unexpectedly, family members who are supportive of my non-traditional lifestyle, and you guys, my readers who like what [...]