You’re Not Her PR Agent

Sample scenario: Buddy: “Yo, what happened with the girl you met on Saturday?” You: “I got her number.  Texted her on Tuesday.” Buddy: “Nice.  And?” You: “Nah.  I mean it’s only been three days.  I know she’s really busy with work.  She works at Google, and you know working there can be a bitch.” Buddy: [...]

REJECTION: Lessons Learned from Chinese Dating Show

I’ve been spending some time lately watching a really popular Chinese dating show called “If You’re The One.”  Here’s the basic premise: – 24 girls, 1 guy – Girls have the option to either keep their light on (interested) or off (not interested) for the guy.  They can turn their light off whenever they want. [...]

DATING SURVEY RESULTS: Women Want Better Sex; Men Don’t Know What Women Want (And it May Not Matter)

Results of the Dating Survey are in!  We had 100 participants: 41% female and 59% male.  The results are fascinating and somewhat surprising. *In the survey, participants were asked to give their demographic info (age, location, occupation, employment status, relationship status and sexual preference) and then rank the following qualities in order of importance when evaluating [...]

The Last Dick

Written By: Dick Lambert Sorry, I haven’t been posting my adventures recently. I am going to catch you all up and also say goodbye, as this will be Dick’s last post. I recently, had a house guest for a few weeks. A friend of mine from high school is getting divorced and he needed some [...]

An Inside, Uncensored Look at Miss Singlefied

I was recently interviewed and profiled by JackFroot.com.  I promised I wouldn’t hold anything back.  And I didn’t… ________________________________________________ Up Close and Personal with Miss Singlefied STAN KARR YEUNG If Will Smith’s character from the 2005 movie Hitch were a real person, he would be a she, and she would be Chinese and hot. Everything else is pretty much the same, minus [...]

The Art of Conversation III: It’s Not Me, It’s You

Let’s just pretend I never went on a blogging hiatus.  Cool?  Cool. Continuing our “Art of Conversation” series, last time I wrote about Deep Listening: The most scarce resource in a conversation is attention.  And once you’re in a conversation, what do you do? The biggest mistake many make when in a conversation with a [...]

LIVE dating advice tonight on Uvidy! 10pm EST. Topic: Rejection

Miss Singlefied will be answering dating questions LIVE tonight on Uvidy.  You can also get your dating questions early by submitting here.

HOW TO: Do simple dance moves on the dance floor (Singlefied.com & Sparkology.com)

You Got Served – Take It to the Streets (Dance Instructional)

Chivas Tasting Event: Winner Announced & Date Tips

Wow, some of you guys are so romantical and some of you are just douchey.  It’s all good, because the girls of Singlefied have picked a winner: Aaron H.  Congrats Aaron, you and a guest will be attending the Chivas Tasting Event courtesy of Sparkology!  Check out the winning date idea below, and scroll through [...]

The Art of Conversation II: Can You Hear Me Now?

Last week, we looked at the overall goal of conversations: view every conversation as an adventure.  Now, to some technical stuff, starting with DEEP LISTENING. Before you tell me you think you’re a great listener, think again.  Most people think they’re listening when all they’re doing is going through the motions of listening (eye contact, [...]