The Appeal of an Older Woman

3 things happened to me recently.  I was interviewed (and quoted) for a a blog post on Cougars on Urbane Perspective.  I randomly came across an episode of Strange Sex on Discovery Health on Cougar-Cub relationships, namely a 73-year-old Hattie on a first date with a 33-year-old Ron.  Then, a client of mine just recently [...]

Why You Should Try Speed Dating (And Be Good At It)

I recently went to my first speed dating event with some girlfriends.  For those of you who are not familiar with speed dating, here is how it works: you’re put in a private room (usually at a bar/club) with other daters and possible lovers.  You get a scorecard (as pictured) and fill in your interest [...]

Women Watch Porn; What You Can Learn

Yes, women watch porn.  Probably not as much as you, but we definitely do not deprive ourselves of such cinematic pleasures.  The porn that we prefer to watch; however, is a little bit different that what you guys like.  Our pornographic preferences are very telling of what we like in bed: 1) Amateur It’s what [...]

Top 5 Things that Won’t Get You A(nother) Date

5. Emoticons.  You may think you’re being cute, when we think it’s your passive aggressive way of saying “like me” or “just kidding.”  Man up to what message you’re trying to get across and don’t hang your insecurities on a stupid cartoon face. 4. Unplanned dates. When you ask a girl out, you should already [...]

Miss Singlefied Answers Your Dating Questions via Video

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Female Sadists and Male Masochists: The Way it Should Be?

Last weekend, my hot leggy friend Bethenny asked if I wanted to go out to dinner with her and her girlfriends.  Her text to me was, “We have a driver and dinner will be free.”  Fully intrigued, I agreed to tag along.  As I waited on the curb, a nice SUV pulled up with a [...]

Get Hard and Stay Hard (It’s the least you can do)

Lately, I’ve been thinking about all the things that girls do to improve our performance in the sack.  First, we have millions of best-selling books on how to pleasure a guy in bed.  There’s even one for squirting!  Yup, a step-by-step instructional booklet on teaching ourselves to squirt.  Then, we have kegel exercises where we [...]

Breaking the Ice: The Creeper Sweeper

Every time girls go out, it’s inevitable that we’re approached by a creeper.  Sucks for us but awesome for you!  Why?  Everything is relative, so if you immediately talk to a girl after she has been creeper attacked, by comparison, you’ll seem 10x more normal and desirable.  And if you’re the one to get rid [...]

SWOT Yourself

Dating is like selling yourself as a product and seeing who wants to buy.  But how can you really sell yourself if you don’t know your product?  Self-awareness and understanding is something lacking among many men, so this week, I challenge you to go back to Marketing 101 and get to know your product.  SWOT [...]

Make Manhandling a New Year’s Resolution

When I hear girls describing their best sex partners, it’s always along the lines of, “then he threw me up against the wall,” “all of a sudden, he flips me,” “there was a little spanking.”  The excitement for us is really rooted in idea of dominance.  We want to role play with you; whether it’d [...]