Ask Miss Singlefied: How to answer “What do you do in your free time?”

How To Get The Girl | IGNORE and SCORE: Dating Mindsets Explained – How To Attract And Date Beautiful Women

Ask Miss Singlefied: Top 5 Dating Lessons Learned in 2011

  5. “The Reality TV Effect”: Why sometimes an amazing date doesn’t necessarily mean she likes you 4. The Friend Zone: How to get out before it’s too late 3. How to handle rejection 2. How can you tell when she’s playing hard too get; sending mixed messages 1. The Nice Guy: It’s not about [...]

The Art of Conversation III: It’s Not Me, It’s You

Let’s just pretend I never went on a blogging hiatus.  Cool?  Cool. Continuing our “Art of Conversation” series, last time I wrote about Deep Listening: The most scarce resource in a conversation is attention.  And once you’re in a conversation, what do you do? The biggest mistake many make when in a conversation with a [...]

The Art of Conversation II: Can You Hear Me Now?

Last week, we looked at the overall goal of conversations: view every conversation as an adventure.  Now, to some technical stuff, starting with DEEP LISTENING. Before you tell me you think you’re a great listener, think again.  Most people think they’re listening when all they’re doing is going through the motions of listening (eye contact, [...]

Ask Miss Singlefied: She wants sex on the first date but you refuse. What now? (Halloween Edition)

Men’s Sexual Health: Fitness for Satisfying Sex

The Art of Conversation I: Start an Adventure

This is what I always hear from guys, “Yue, it’s very easy to find attractive women, but why is it so hard to have a decent conversation with any of them?”  Sure, we can blame it on lack of brains and social prowess, getting by on looks alone, or overall disinterest in being interesting.  But [...]

When and How to Use Compliments

Compliments can go a long way but some guys just don’t know when and how to use them.  Here are some simple guidelines: 1) When picking up a girl, don’t use looks-based compliments.  In a pick-up situation, a girl may be fed line after line.  In this environment, a girl has come to expect guys [...]

Top 5 Things that Won’t Get You A(nother) Date

5. Emoticons.  You may think you’re being cute, when we think it’s your passive aggressive way of saying “like me” or “just kidding.”  Man up to what message you’re trying to get across and don’t hang your insecurities on a stupid cartoon face. 4. Unplanned dates. When you ask a girl out, you should already [...]

The Verdict on Brunch Dates

There seems to be a trend of brunch dates these days.  If you’re unfamiliar with brunch, it’s basically a fancy way of saying “extended lunch on a weekend, usually involving day drinking.”   When asking a girl out on a brunch date, take the following into consideration: 1) The Good It’s cheap. It’s laid-back. Since it’s [...]

Color Psychology and Dating

Lately, I’ve been playing around with how our senses affect our dating experience.   There are certainly things that we can’t control, such as our bone structure, natural body odor, and sound of our voice, but then there are somethings we can control.  This week, I want to explore color psychology. What if you could give [...]